The Curse of Knowledge: Leverage the Feedback Loop for Stellar Communication

In the fast-paced world of project management, effective communication is paramount. This article unpacks the "curse of knowledge" and how to turn communication from a one-way street into a collaborative highway to project success.

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Akinyi Apondi

Head of Program Management

Posted on Oct 01, 2025

Introduction: Beyond the Status Update 💬

You've been working on a complex project for months. When briefing the Legal and Finance teams, you explain, "The Agile sprint is ahead of schedule, we've resolved the API integration issues with the third-party vendor's SDK, and the QA team has signed off on the MVP." The teams are left confused. You, who are so familiar with technical jargon, failed to realize that terms like "Agile sprint," "API integration," and "MVP" are meaningless to those outside your immediate project. Your deep knowledge became a communication barrier. What causes this, you might ask? This is known as the curse of knowledge.

The curse of knowledge is a cognitive bias that assumes that the other person has the same background knowledge as you and therefore finds it difficult to imagine what it's like to not have that information. This leads to communicating in a way that is too high-level, unclear, or full of assumptions, creating a one-way communication street.

Effective communication isn't a one-way street; it's a dynamic, two-way process that requires active stakeholder interaction. Introducing the feedback loop is key to adding a crucial step: a response from the recipient that provides the sender with information on how their message was received.

This article will cover: what the feedback loop is, why it's critical for project stakeholders, and how to implement it effectively.

What is the Feedback Loop? 🔁

The feedback loop in communication is simply a continuous cycle of specific actions designed for engaging with project stakeholders. It involves:

  • Transmitting the Message: Clearly communicating information, but doing so with the specific audience in mind. Consider how you transmit progress, risks, and changes to different stakeholder groups.
  • Receiving Feedback: This is the most critical part. It's not just about waiting for a response; it's about actively listening for and gathering responses, questions, and concerns from your stakeholders. This requires creating a safe space for them to voice their opinions.
  • Adapting the Plan: Using the received feedback from stakeholders to make informed adjustments to the project, communication style, or engagement strategy. This demonstrates that their input is valued and helps to build trust.

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Why It's a Project Management Superpower 💪

It is a superpower simply because it:

  • Builds Trust & Buy-in: When stakeholders feel heard and their input is incorporated, they are more likely to trust your leadership and actively support the project. This interaction transforms them from passive observers into project partners.
  • Mitigates Risks Early: Direct feedback from stakeholders can reveal potential issues or misunderstandings before they become major problems. A stakeholder might raise a concern about a dependency you hadn't considered, or a change in their business unit that impacts the project.
  • Increases Transparency: A visible feedback loop shows stakeholders that the project is being managed openly and adaptively, which reduces uncertainty and anxiety. This open interaction fosters a sense of shared ownership.
  • Enhances Decision-Making: Better information leads to better decisions. Feedback from key stakeholders provides crucial context and different perspectives for steering the project in the right direction.

How Stakeholders Can Contribute to the Loop 🗣️

The feedback loop is not a one way street, project stakeholders have a role and responsibility in making the feedback loop effective. As a stakeholder, you can:

  • Be Proactive with Questions: Ask clarifying questions as soon as you receive information. This helps to surface misunderstandings immediately.
  • Provide Timely and Constructive Input: Feedback is the most valuable when it is timely. Whether it's a comment on a document or a concern raised in a meeting, prompt responses keep the project moving forward. Offer constructive suggestions rather than just pointing out problems.
  • Share Relevant Context: Provide context as it is a powerful tool. For example, instead of just saying "I don't like this timeline," explain, "This timeline is a problem because it conflicts with a major company-wide initiative we have scheduled for that same quarter."
  • Participate in Scheduled Check-ins: Engage actively in project meetings, steering committees, or one-on-one sessions otherwise the feedback loop will not function.

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How to Close the Loop 🔁

  • Be Proactive, Not Just Reactive: Don't wait for a problem to arise. Schedule regular check-ins and formal feedback sessions with key stakeholder groups. Tailor your engagement to their specific needs and influence levels.
  • Choose the Right Channels: A quick email might suffice for a simple update, but a face-to-face meeting (or video call) is better for discussing complex issues or sensitive topics with key decision-makers. The channel you choose should facilitate a genuine dialogue.
  • Ask Open-Ended Questions: Instead of "Do you have any questions?", ask "What are your biggest concerns about this new timeline?" or "How does this change impact your team's workflow?" Frame your questions to elicit meaningful responses.
  • Summarize and Confirm: After receiving feedback, summarize what you heard to ensure you've understood correctly. For example, "So, what I'm hearing is that the new delivery date is a concern because of a conflict with your team's launch schedule. Is that right?" This simple act shows you were listening.
  • Communicate the Outcome: Once you've used the feedback to make a decision or an adjustment, let the stakeholder know what happened. This final step is crucial for completing the loop and showing their input was valued. Tell them, "Based on your feedback about the timeline, we've adjusted our sprint plan to [action]."

Conclusion: Make It a Habit ✨

Mastering the feedback loop isn't a one-time task but an essential, ongoing practice for any successful project manager and stakeholder. It transforms relationships from a transactional exchange to a collaborative partnership.

Think about how you'll engage using the principles of the feedback loop in your role and put it into practice.

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